<html><head><meta http-equiv="content-type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"></head><body style="overflow-wrap: break-word; -webkit-nbsp-mode: space; line-break: after-white-space;">Hi, all,<div><br></div><div>I am getting the emails just fine. Thanks, Jane and Bonnie, for working so hard to keep us in touch!</div><div><br></div><div>xoxo Betsy<br><div><br><blockquote type="cite"><div>On May 2, 2023, at 3:04 PM, Mary Hickok via oxford63 <oxford63@mailman.cyber-community.com> wrote:</div><br class="Apple-interchange-newline"><div><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml><o:OfficeDocumentSettings><o:AllowPNG/><o:PixelsPerInch>96</o:PixelsPerInch></o:OfficeDocumentSettings></xml><![endif]--><div>
Greetings, everyone. <br>I am assuming that everyone got the big post card from K-O about the October reunion. As you can see from Deb’s message thread below, she was not aware of our recent ZOOM.<div><br></div><div>I like her idea…would you please, ALL OF YOU, send a reply right away when you get this. A quick hello will do. Jane and I want to see if everyone on the cybermesa list gets the email.</div><div><br></div><div>Leslie got some information about the Essex Steam Train/Boat Ride, which actually looks fun. More about that very soon….when we see who answers this email. Thanks everyone. Love, Bonnie<br><br><a href="https://apps.apple.com/us/app/aol-news-email-weather-video/id646100661">Sent from the all new AOL app for iOS</a><br><br><p class="yahoo-quoted-begin" style="font-size: 15px; color: #715FFA; padding-top: 15px; margin-top: 0">On Saturday, April 29, 2023, 1:42 PM, Deb Edson <edson4550@gmail.com> wrote:</p><blockquote class="iosymail"><div id="yiv5656319670"><div><div dir="ltr"><div style="font-family:garamond, serif;font-size:large;" class="yiv5656319670gmail_default">Hmmm .. seems cumbersome for you to have to alert everyone that an <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" shape="rect" ymailto="mailto:oxford63@cyber-community.com" target="_blank" href="mailto:oxford63@cyber-community.com">oxford63@cyber-community.com</a> is on its way each time one is sent out.</div><div style="font-family:garamond, serif;font-size:large;" class="yiv5656319670gmail_default">Maybe in the next few days send out a regular oxford63etc email with the note that it is a test email and request that everyone who received it please</div><div style="font-family:garamond, serif;font-size:large;" class="yiv5656319670gmail_default">reply so you know that they got it. Then, after a week?, send emails to those who did not reply asking them to check their spam etc. Maybe that way we can</div><div style="font-family:garamond, serif;font-size:large;" class="yiv5656319670gmail_default">get most of us in the clear, and the few (hopefully) who just don't get the emails could be on a list as needing notification thru their personal emails.</div><div style="font-family:garamond, serif;font-size:large;" class="yiv5656319670gmail_default">Does that make sense, or is that more convoluted than just sending everyone an email?</div><div style="font-family:garamond, serif;font-size:large;" class="yiv5656319670gmail_default"><br clear="none"></div><div style="font-family:garamond, serif;font-size:large;" class="yiv5656319670gmail_default">If it comes down to having to notify everyone thru individual emails, might as well just ditch the cyber-community server??? ... or am I missing something?</div><div style="font-family:garamond, serif;font-size:large;" class="yiv5656319670gmail_default"><br clear="none"></div><div style="font-family:garamond, serif;font-size:large;" class="yiv5656319670gmail_default">Thank you to both of you for working on keeping us connected!</div><div style="font-family:garamond, serif;font-size:large;" class="yiv5656319670gmail_default"><br clear="none"></div><div style="font-family:garamond, serif;font-size:large;" class="yiv5656319670gmail_default">Sending love,</div><div style="font-family:garamond, serif;font-size:large;" class="yiv5656319670gmail_default">💖🌻 Debbie<br clear="none"></div><div style="font-family:garamond, serif;font-size:large;" class="yiv5656319670gmail_default"><br clear="none"></div><div style="font-family:garamond, serif;font-size:large;" class="yiv5656319670gmail_default"> </div></div><br clear="none"><div id="yiv5656319670yqt00417" class="yiv5656319670yqt7396277902"><div class="yiv5656319670gmail_quote"><div dir="ltr" class="yiv5656319670gmail_attr">On Thu, Apr 27, 2023 at 1:19 PM Jane M. Hill <<a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" shape="rect" ymailto="mailto:jhill@cybermesa.com" target="_blank" href="mailto:jhill@cybermesa.com">jhill@cybermesa.com</a>> wrote:<br clear="none"></div><blockquote style="margin:0px 0px 0px 0.8ex;border-left:1px solid rgb(204,204,204);padding-left:1ex;" class="yiv5656319670gmail_quote">
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After some classmates complained that they did not get the Zoom
invitation, I had our System Administrator check the mail flow
from our actual mail server. The mail went to everyone on the
list, though there were issues. I had the wrong address for Lelly.
The three Comcast users did not get the invitation because Comcast
had "black-listed" <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" shape="rect" target="_blank" href="http://mailman.cybermesa.com/">mailman.cybermesa.com</a> - the server where our
list resides. We did not notice because the actual mail server was
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The REAL issue seems to be that the messages are stuck in spam
traps. Sally (gmail address) found one of the messages in her
spam. Since we know the emails are leaving our mail server, it is
difficult to know how to alert the list. I could send individual
emails to all suggesting that they check spam, and if possible,
make a rule that all email from an address containing "oxford63"
(or more extensively <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" shape="rect" ymailto="mailto:oxford63@cyber-community.com" target="_blank" href="mailto:oxford63@cyber-community.com">oxford63@cyber-community.com</a>) be delivered.
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I have a Gmail account that is almost dormant. I dug around and
could not find a way to ensure that email from "oxford63" is
always delivered. It's possible that if a message is found in the
Spam mailbox and moved to the Inbox, Gmail will retain the
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Shall I send out individual messages? That's the only solution I
can think conjure. I guess there's hope that Gmail will change its
spam algorithms, and the problem will solve itself. I did check
with a few individuals, and they did receive the invitation - Tina
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Hi! It is so discouraging! A number of people did not get the
email. Jane is the one who manages the list. I have copied Jane
and we will see what she says about your email address.
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<div>Leslie Barlow is looking into boat trips on the Conn
River…she just had knee surgery but promises to finish her
research soon. I was then going to email everyone again. I
gather that you had not heard that the reunion is in
October….apparently, alums asked for it to be in the fall
because it is such a pretty timer, and May/earl June is too busy
with other things.</div>
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<div>The group on the phone suggested all sorts of things. Maybe
going in Oct., but not everyone would go to lunch. That bothers
me a bit as I am assuming we will try to raise some money for
Courtney’s scholarship fund. On the other hand, several said
that we could have a reunion anywhere, any time. There was
absolutely no consensus. I am glad Sally sent you the email…I
don’t remember the details.</div>
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<div>So…I will start bugging Lelly, and then send out another
email to see if we can make any progress. </div>
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<div>I hope you are well, and enjoying spring. We have just
returned from a true bucket list trip. Bob wanted to go to
Buenos Aires and Rio. So, we took a cruse from BA to Rio, after
spending three days in BA to start. It was a great trip,
despite the heat. 💝 Bonnie<br clear="none">
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On Sunday, April 16, 2023, 6:56 PM, Deb Edson
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<div style="font-family:garamond, serif;font-size:large;">I happened to call
Sally this past week, and she told me there was a class
zoom. I believe it was initiated by you? I just wanted
to let you know that I did not get an email about the
zoom, so, obviously, I didn't know about it. Would you
please check to make sure I am still on the email list?
My email is <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" shape="rect" ymailto="mailto:edson4550@gmail.com" target="_blank" href="mailto:edson4550@gmail.com">edson4550@gmail.com</a>.</div>
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<div style="font-family:garamond, serif;font-size:large;">Sal forwarded me the
email that you sent her telling her a little of what was
discussed. I agree that we need at least emails going
around to figure out a reunion happening. I mean, we
can't blow off our 60th!! Did anyone have any ideas of
how/where we could gather? I agree that we don't have to
do the "official" reunion date. (I confess that I had no
idea what it was!)</div>
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<div style="font-family:garamond, serif;font-size:large;">Thanks, Bonnie, for
striving to keep us connected.</div>
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