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<font face="Arial">Betsy -<br>
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Your email did go to the list just fine. The part that bounced was
when you included "mailman" in the TO: section. Here's your header
(I added the bold and big):<br>
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<td>Re: [Oxford63] Oxford Hi! TEST</td>
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<td>Tue, 2 May 2023 18:26:12 -0400</td>
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<td>Elizabeth Cadbury <a class="moz-txt-link-rfc2396E" href="mailto:betsycadbury@yahoo.com"><betsycadbury@yahoo.com></a></td>
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<td>Mary Hickok <a class="moz-txt-link-rfc2396E" href="mailto:mhickok1@verizon.net"><mhickok1@verizon.net></a>, <b><font
size="4"><a class="moz-txt-link-abbreviated" href="mailto:oxford63@mailman.cyber-community.com">oxford63@mailman.cyber-community.com</a>
<a class="moz-txt-link-rfc2396E" href="mailto:oxford63@mailman.cyber-community.com"><oxford63@mailman.cyber-community.com></a></font></b></td>
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<td>Deb Edson <a class="moz-txt-link-rfc2396E" href="mailto:edson4550@gmail.com"><edson4550@gmail.com></a>, Jane M. Hill
<a class="moz-txt-link-rfc2396E" href="mailto:jhill@cybermesa.com"><jhill@cybermesa.com></a>, Oxford Class of 63
<a class="moz-txt-link-rfc2396E" href="mailto:oxford63@cyber-community.com"><oxford63@cyber-community.com></a></td>
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Mail for the list should be addressed to <b><a class="moz-txt-link-abbreviated" href="mailto:oxford63@cyber-community.com">oxford63@cyber-community.com</a></b>
and should not include "mailman". I'm pretty sure that's what
bounced.<br>
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Hope all goes well.<br>
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<div class="moz-cite-prefix">On 5/2/2023 4:26 PM, Elizabeth Cadbury
wrote:<br>
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Hi, all,
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<div>I am getting the emails just fine. Thanks, Jane and Bonnie,
for working so hard to keep us in touch!</div>
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<div>xoxo Betsy<br>
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<div>On May 2, 2023, at 3:04 PM, Mary Hickok via oxford63
<a class="moz-txt-link-rfc2396E" href="mailto:oxford63@mailman.cyber-community.com"><oxford63@mailman.cyber-community.com></a> wrote:</div>
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Greetings, everyone. <br>
I am assuming that everyone got the big post card from
K-O about the October reunion. As you can see from
Deb’s message thread below, she was not aware of our
recent ZOOM.
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<div>I like her idea…would you please, ALL OF YOU, send
a reply right away when you get this. A quick hello
will do. Jane and I want to see if everyone on the
cybermesa list gets the email.</div>
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<div>Leslie got some information about the Essex Steam
Train/Boat Ride, which actually looks fun. More about
that very soon….when we see who answers this email.
Thanks everyone. Love, Bonnie<br>
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<a
href="https://apps.apple.com/us/app/aol-news-email-weather-video/id646100661"
moz-do-not-send="true">Sent from the all new AOL app
for iOS</a><br>
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<p class="yahoo-quoted-begin" style="font-size: 15px;
color: #715FFA; padding-top: 15px; margin-top: 0">On
Saturday, April 29, 2023, 1:42 PM, Deb Edson
<a class="moz-txt-link-rfc2396E" href="mailto:edson4550@gmail.com"><edson4550@gmail.com></a> wrote:</p>
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<div style="font-family:garamond,
serif;font-size:large;"
class="yiv5656319670gmail_default">Hmmm ..
seems cumbersome for you to have to alert
everyone that an <a rel="nofollow noopener
noreferrer" shape="rect"
ymailto="mailto:oxford63@cyber-community.com"
target="_blank"
href="mailto:oxford63@cyber-community.com"
moz-do-not-send="true"
class="moz-txt-link-freetext">oxford63@cyber-community.com</a>
is on its way each time one is sent out.</div>
<div style="font-family:garamond,
serif;font-size:large;"
class="yiv5656319670gmail_default">Maybe in
the next few days send out a regular
oxford63etc email with the note that it is a
test email and request that everyone who
received it please</div>
<div style="font-family:garamond,
serif;font-size:large;"
class="yiv5656319670gmail_default">reply so
you know that they got it. Then, after a
week?, send emails to those who did not
reply asking them to check their spam etc.
Maybe that way we can</div>
<div style="font-family:garamond,
serif;font-size:large;"
class="yiv5656319670gmail_default">get most
of us in the clear, and the few (hopefully)
who just don't get the emails could be on a
list as needing notification thru their
personal emails.</div>
<div style="font-family:garamond,
serif;font-size:large;"
class="yiv5656319670gmail_default">Does that
make sense, or is that more convoluted than
just sending everyone an email?</div>
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<div style="font-family:garamond,
serif;font-size:large;"
class="yiv5656319670gmail_default">If it
comes down to having to notify everyone thru
individual emails, might as well just ditch
the cyber-community server??? ... or am I
missing something?</div>
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<div style="font-family:garamond,
serif;font-size:large;"
class="yiv5656319670gmail_default">Thank you
to both of you for working on keeping us
connected!</div>
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<div style="font-family:garamond,
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class="yiv5656319670gmail_default">Sending
love,</div>
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class="yiv5656319670gmail_default">💖🌻 Debbie<br
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class="yiv5656319670gmail_attr">On Thu,
Apr 27, 2023 at 1:19 PM Jane M. Hill <<a
rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer"
shape="rect"
ymailto="mailto:jhill@cybermesa.com"
target="_blank"
href="mailto:jhill@cybermesa.com"
moz-do-not-send="true"
class="moz-txt-link-freetext">jhill@cybermesa.com</a>>
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<div> Bonnie and Deb -<br clear="none">
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After some classmates complained that
they did not get the Zoom invitation, I
had our System Administrator check the
mail flow from our actual mail server.
The mail went to everyone on the list,
though there were issues. I had the
wrong address for Lelly. The three
Comcast users did not get the invitation
because Comcast had "black-listed" <a
rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer"
shape="rect" target="_blank"
href="http://mailman.cybermesa.com/"
moz-do-not-send="true">mailman.cybermesa.com</a>
- the server where our list resides. We
did not notice because the actual mail
server was not blocked. We contacted
Comcast and are in the clear.<br
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The REAL issue seems to be that the
messages are stuck in spam traps. Sally
(gmail address) found one of the
messages in her spam. Since we know the
emails are leaving our mail server, it
is difficult to know how to alert the
list. I could send individual emails to
all suggesting that they check spam, and
if possible, make a rule that all email
from an address containing "oxford63"
(or more extensively <a rel="nofollow
noopener noreferrer" shape="rect"
ymailto="mailto:oxford63@cyber-community.com"
target="_blank"
href="mailto:oxford63@cyber-community.com"
moz-do-not-send="true"
class="moz-txt-link-freetext">oxford63@cyber-community.com</a>)
be delivered. Our spam filter has the
capability to always accept of always
block individual senders. <br
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I have a Gmail account that is almost
dormant. I dug around and could not find
a way to ensure that email from
"oxford63" is always delivered. It's
possible that if a message is found in
the Spam mailbox and moved to the Inbox,
Gmail will retain the information. No
way to tell.<br clear="none">
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Shall I send out individual messages?
That's the only solution I can think
conjure. I guess there's hope that Gmail
will change its spam algorithms, and the
problem will solve itself. I did check
with a few individuals, and they did
receive the invitation - Tina comes to
mind.<br clear="none">
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Hope all goes well otherwise with the
two of you.<br clear="none">
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*** Jane ***<br clear="none">
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Cyber Mesa Telecom<br clear="none">
Santa Fe Headquarters<br clear="none">
Tel 505-988-9200<br clear="none">
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<a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer"
shape="rect" target="_blank"
href="https://www.cybermesa.com/"
moz-do-not-send="true"><i>Cyber Mesa
Website</i></a> <br clear="none">
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<div>On 4/18/2023 2:50 PM, Mary Hickok
wrote:<br clear="none">
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<blockquote type="cite"> Hi! It is so
discouraging! A number of people did
not get the email. Jane is the one
who manages the list. I have copied
Jane and we will see what she says
about your email address.
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<div>Leslie Barlow is looking into
boat trips on the Conn River…she
just had knee surgery but promises
to finish her research soon. I was
then going to email everyone again.
I gather that you had not heard that
the reunion is in
October….apparently, alums asked for
it to be in the fall because it is
such a pretty timer, and May/earl
June is too busy with other things.</div>
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<div>The group on the phone suggested
all sorts of things. Maybe going in
Oct., but not everyone would go to
lunch. That bothers me a bit as I
am assuming we will try to raise
some money for Courtney’s
scholarship fund. On the other
hand, several said that we could
have a reunion anywhere, any time.
There was absolutely no consensus. I
am glad Sally sent you the email…I
don’t remember the details.</div>
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<div>So…I will start bugging Lelly,
and then send out another email to
see if we can make any progress. </div>
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<div>I hope you are well, and enjoying
spring. We have just returned from
a true bucket list trip. Bob wanted
to go to Buenos Aires and Rio. So,
we took a cruse from BA to Rio,
after spending three days in BA to
start. It was a great trip, despite
the heat. 💝 Bonnie<br clear="none">
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style="font-size:15px;color:rgb(113,95,250);padding-top:15px;margin-top:0px;"><span
style="color:rgb(170,170,170);">Begin
forwarded message:</span><br
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On Sunday, April 16, 2023, 6:56
PM, Deb Edson <a rel="nofollow
noopener noreferrer"
shape="rect"
ymailto="mailto:edson4550@gmail.com"
target="_blank"
href="mailto:edson4550@gmail.com"
moz-do-not-send="true"><edson4550@gmail.com></a>
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Bonnie,</div>
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<div
style="font-family:garamond,
serif;font-size:large;">I
happened to call Sally this
past week, and she told me
there was a class zoom. I
believe it was initiated by
you? I just wanted to let
you know that I did not get
an email about the zoom, so,
obviously, I didn't know
about it. Would you please
check to make sure I am
still on the email list? My
email is <a rel="nofollow
noopener noreferrer"
shape="rect"
ymailto="mailto:edson4550@gmail.com"
target="_blank"
href="mailto:edson4550@gmail.com"
moz-do-not-send="true"
class="moz-txt-link-freetext">edson4550@gmail.com</a>.</div>
<div
style="font-family:garamond,
serif;font-size:large;"><br
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<div
style="font-family:garamond,
serif;font-size:large;">Sal
forwarded me the email that
you sent her telling her a
little of what was
discussed. I agree that we
need at least emails going
around to figure out a
reunion happening. I mean,
we can't blow off our 60th!!
Did anyone have any ideas of
how/where we could gather? I
agree that we don't have to
do the "official" reunion
date. (I confess that I had
no idea what it was!)</div>
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<div
style="font-family:garamond,
serif;font-size:large;">Thanks,
Bonnie, for striving to keep
us connected.</div>
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style="font-family:garamond,
serif;font-size:large;"><br
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<div
style="font-family:garamond,
serif;font-size:large;">Hope
all is well with you.</div>
<div
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serif;font-size:large;"><br
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<div
style="font-family:garamond,
serif;font-size:large;">💖 Debbie<br
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