<html><head><meta http-equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html charset=windows-1252"></head><body style="word-wrap: break-word; -webkit-nbsp-mode: space; -webkit-line-break: after-white-space;">Thank you Jane, and thank you Primo, for sharing those tender final moments with us. Courtney was truly an inspiration, and she obviously died with as much grace as she lived. It was an honor to know her, and I know how much you must miss her, Primo. All blessings to you, and safe journey to Poland to be with your grandmother. She must be so proud of the man you are.<div><br></div><div>Love to all, Betsy</div><div><br><div><div>On Nov 6, 2017, at 3:45 PM, <a href="mailto:oxford63@mailman.cyber-community.com">oxford63@mailman.cyber-community.com</a> wrote:</div><br class="Apple-interchange-newline"><blockquote type="cite"><div lang="EN-US" link="blue" vlink="#954F72" style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: normal; orphans: auto; text-align: start; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;"><div class="WordSection1" style="page: WordSection1;"><div style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;">Thank you, Primo, for sharing all of this – you are a good man. Claudia</div><div style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;"><o:p> </o:p></div><div style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;">Sent from<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span><a href="https://go.microsoft.com/fwlink/?LinkId=550986" style="color: rgb(149, 79, 114); text-decoration: underline;">Mail</a><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>for Windows 10</div><div style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;"><o:p> </o:p></div><div style="border-style: solid none none; border-top-color: rgb(225, 225, 225); border-top-width: 1pt; padding: 3pt 0in 0in;"><div style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; border: none; padding: 0in;"><b>From:<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></b><a href="mailto:oxford63@mailman.cyber-community.com" style="color: rgb(149, 79, 114); text-decoration: underline;">oxford63@mailman.cyber-community.com</a><br><b>Sent:<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></b>Monday, November 6, 2017 2:23 PM<br><b>To:<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></b><a href="mailto:oxford63@mailman.cyber-community.com" style="color: rgb(149, 79, 114); text-decoration: underline;">oxford63@mailman.cyber-community.com</a><br><b>Cc:<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></b><a href="mailto:oxford63@cyber-community.com" style="color: rgb(149, 79, 114); text-decoration: underline;">oxford63@cyber-community.com</a><br><b>Subject:<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></b>Re: [Oxford63] More about Courtney</div></div><div style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;"><o:p> </o:p></div><div style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;">What a beautiful moving email about Courtney’s last days surrounded by devotion and love…thank you Primo and thank you Jane for contacting. What an inspiring life she was.<o:p></o:p></div><div><div style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;">All blessings,<o:p></o:p></div></div><div><div style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;">Nanny-Co<o:p></o:p></div><div><blockquote style="margin-top: 5pt; margin-bottom: 5pt;"><div><div style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;">On Nov 6, 2017, at 1:12 PM,<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span><a href="mailto:oxford63@mailman.cyber-community.com" style="color: rgb(149, 79, 114); text-decoration: underline;">oxford63@mailman.cyber-community.com</a><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>wrote:<o:p></o:p></div></div><div style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;"><o:p> </o:p></div><div><div><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 12pt; font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;">Dear Class,<br><br>When Courtney passed I managed to contact Primo. He sent me the following on October 29th. I contacted him this weekend, and he said he would be happy if I shared his email with our list.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span><br><br>I wrote him back on Saturday, and he sent me photos of Courtney via my phone. I spent some time yesterday getting a program that moves the photos to the DCIM part of the phone photo gallery, and from there I was able to transfer them to my computer. So, will send some photos soon.<br><br>It occurs to me that we might add Primo to our list, at least for a little while. I think it would be good for us and for Primo. If there is some reason not to include him, then let me know.<br><br><o:p></o:p></p><div align="center"><table class="MsoNormalTable" border="0" cellpadding="0" width="70%" style="width: 555px;"><tbody><tr><td valign="top" style="padding: 1.5pt;"><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">Dearest Jane,</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">I still remember our wonderful time with you in Santa Fe, we had such</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">a great time over dinner that night and we were coming to that memory</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">with Courtney and her visiting friends many many times .... after.</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">I think we all were shock with Courtney passing. Even me, although</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">God was preparing me for that in gentle way since Courtney health</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">started to decline the last two years. She was resurrected many times,</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">to her normal self which was surprising to see how strong she was and</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">her will to live. She loved life and made amazing use of it.</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">It has started with her lungs collecting liquid and need of being</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">drained every so often, we were going back and forward to the</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">hospital. Treated with antibiotics for different infections. At the</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">end her heart was too weak to recover.</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">She was moved from reg floor to intensive care on Sept 23 and treated</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">with strong medicine for heart, diuretics for liquid which was</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">collecting in her body this time around, and strong medication to help</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">her blood pressure. The medications were being increased daily, since</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">there was no visible improvement. Till the doctors reached the maximum</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">level on Wednesday morning and Courtney breathing became a problem.</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">they called me at 5 am, that she is declining I was able to call 15 of</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">her closest friends to the hospital including Debby Lilly ( they were</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">luckily in town for haircut ) so we all gather around Courtney bed and</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">we all were able to hold her hand and say goodbyes, with doctor advice</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">we removed her from the strong medication which kept her alive at</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">12,30 noon and I was holding her hand we all were telling her how much</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">we loved her..., She gave her last breath before after 4,30pm and</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">before 5 pm it might have been 4,40/45pm. Our eyes were fixed on</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">Courtney so it was hard to keep truck of time. She has passed</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">surrounded by 15 of closest friend from different walks of life</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">including her ex husband Bill. I was holding her hand which she keep</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">squeezing and pulled to herself several times. She has died peacefully</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">... per aspera ad astra</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">She was cremated on October 2nd, I miss her terribly everyday since</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">her passing the only comfort I find in the thought that she doesn't</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">suffer any longer. Although she never complaint about her illness nor</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">anything in general all 15 years I have worked for her.</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">In my opinion she was and is a Saint, but that just my opinion based</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">on my daily life with her for 15 years.</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">I would love to send you some copies of her obituaries...and some</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">photos, if you could see me your mailing address, and Iphone nr?</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">Here is my contact information;</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';"><o:p> </o:p></pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';"><a href="mailto:primoprzybylski@gmail.com" style="color: rgb(149, 79, 114); text-decoration: underline;">primoprzybylski@gmail.com</a></pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">cell; 1 312 217 1972</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">PRZEMYSLAW PRIMO PRZYBYLSKI</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">900 N. LAKE SHORE DR.,</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">APT - 2214</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">CHICAGO,IL.60611-1576</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';"><o:p> </o:p></pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">You can text me, that's probably the best way to reach me. I will be</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">in Chicago. Going to Poland after nov 6 for 3 weeks to help my grandma</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">who is 98 going on 99. Still very much independent. Much love to you</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">and all the oxford girls...and their families. Keeping Nancy Young and</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">Gorge in my prayers...and all of you as well. Let's keep in touch love</pre><pre style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 10pt; font-family: 'Courier New';">you all! Sincerely, Primo</pre></td></tr></tbody></table></div><div style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;"><o:p> </o:p></div><div><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 12pt; font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;">--<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span><br><br>*** Jane ***<br><br>Cyber Mesa Telecom<br>Santa Fe Headquarters<br>Tel 505-988-9200<br><br><i><a href="mailto:jhill@cybermesa.com" style="color: rgb(149, 79, 114); text-decoration: underline;">jhill@cybermesa.com</a></i><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span><br><br><br><o:p></o:p></p></div></div><div style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;">_______________________________________________<br>oxford63 mailing list<br><a href="mailto:oxford63@mailman.cyber-community.com" style="color: rgb(149, 79, 114); text-decoration: underline;">oxford63@mailman.cyber-community.com</a><br><a href="http://mailman.cybermesa.com/mailman/listinfo/oxford63">http://mailman.cybermesa.com/mailman/listinfo/oxford63</a><o:p></o:p></div></div></blockquote></div></div><div style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;"><o:p> </o:p></div><div style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;"><o:p> </o:p></div></div>_______________________________________________<br>oxford63 mailing list<br><a href="mailto:oxford63@mailman.cyber-community.com">oxford63@mailman.cyber-community.com</a><br>http://mailman.cybermesa.com/mailman/listinfo/oxford63</div></blockquote></div><br></div></body></html>